Poooop.

Relationships are like potatoes. There are so many different options and ways to deal with and fix potatoes everyone has their own preference.
There are times when people tend to over load them and put too much expectations on their potato. Maybe you wanted a baked potato and all you received was a box of instant mashed potatoes that taste like they have been strained through a baby's diaper. It happens.

Sometimes people play hot potato and sometimes end up dropping the potato. Though sometimes if people don't pay attention, things get out of hand. It starts to grow limbs. scary knobs that look like they want to attack your face in the middle of the night with out warning and then you never want to go near that bag of potatoes because they smell like Satan's asshole. Your potato has gone bad.

This is what your relationship should look like.

You just have to learn that sometimes it's all about compromising with your potato. Don't expect au gratin potatoes if you don't put forth a little cheese and effort. Just saying a little bacon never hurt anyone.